The Rising Generation
A major concern that consistently arises with the rising generation centers around individualism, independence, and freedom.
They seek clarity about who they want to be in the face of demands and expectations projected upon them by parents, siblings, peers, trustees, advisors, and so on.
In their search for individuation, the rising generation asks, “Who am I as an individual in the land of giants where there is so much … money, family businesses/enterprises, trusts, and significant philanthropy?”
Individuation is the search for one’s self and the process by which one emerges as unique and distinguishable from all others—can be difficult in a land of greatness and power. It’s understandable why many heirs (and their parents) are paralyzed. Disproving myths that could diminish who you are and can become is essential. It is not uncommon for advisors and parents to fear some of these scenarios below.
Together, we navigate this journey towards clarity, individuation, and empowerment.
The Rising Generation
Dynamics of Family Wealth addresses the major concern that consistently surfaces with the rising generation which centers around individualism, independence, and freedom.
They seek clarity about who they want to be in the face of demands and expectations projected upon them by parents, siblings, peers, trustees, advisors, and so on.
In their search for individuation, the rising generation asks, “Who am I as an individual in the land of giants where there is so much … money, family businesses, enterprises, trusts, and significant philanthropy?”
Individuation is the search for one’s self and the process by which one emerges as unique and distinguishable from all others. Individuation can be difficult in a land of greatness and power. It’s understandable why many heirs (and their parents) are paralyzed. Disproving myths that could diminish who you are and can become is essential. It is not uncommon for advisors and parents to fear some of these scenarios below.
Ginni Galicinao Navigates this journey towards clarity, individuation, and empowerment with her clients everyday.
Demystifying the Myths
Myth #1:
Wealth is Easily Lost
- Only 13% of family businesses survive through the 3rd generation
- 70% of wealth transfers fail
—John Ward (1987). Keeping the family business healthy; Roy Williams and Vic Preisser (2003) Preparing Heirs: Five steps to a successful transition of family wealth.
Myth #2:
Wealth is toxic and will spoil your children
- Heirs need to be protected by controlling access to wealth
- You must have strict rules (like incentive trusts) to preserve wealth
- Because they didn’t earn it, they won’t be as thoughtful and responsible as yourself
- Making big moves like “I’m giving our wealth away for your own good”
The great news is that we have moved on! Research shows that there isn’t a lot of weight in these prior fears. In fact, many of the rising generation and their parents have begun adopting a more empowering wealth mindset with promising results.
The great news is that we have moved on! Research shows that there isn’t a lot of weight in these prior fears. In fact, many of the rising generation and their parents have begun adopting a more empowering wealth mindset with promising results.
Demystifying the Myths
Myth #1:
Wealth is Easily Lost
- Only 13% of family businesses survive through the 3rd generation
- 70% of wealth transfers fail
—John Ward (1987). Keeping the family business healthy; Roy Williams and Vic Preisser (2003) Preparing Heirs: Five steps to a successful transition of family wealth.
Myth #2:
Wealth is toxic and will spoil your children
- Heirs need to be protected by controlling access to wealth
- You must have strict rules (like incentive trusts) to preserve wealth
- Because they didn’t earn it, they won’t be as thoughtful and responsible as yourself
- Making big moves like “I’m giving our wealth away for your own good”
Starting Simple with the Rising Generation
By starting simple with the rising generation, we help them navigate around the multitude of questions swirling around their head.
I often hear this from advisors, “They never ask any questions or voice an opinion.” To which, I respond, “Why are your clients having trouble even knowing what to ask?”
Empowerment begins organically with assistance navigating the confusing waters of significant wealth. We help the rising generation discover what’s in their water, so they can begin to write their own life story. After receiving answers to their many questions, they are more equipped to use the power they have over their own lives.
EMPOWERING WEALTH MINDSET
- Focus on the positive, based on strengths and resilience
- Balance in emphasizing purpose and empowerment alongside challenges
- Rejecting outmoded, questionable myths
- Learning from who succeeds and why, over those who fail
EMPOWERING WEALTH ASSUMPTIONS
- I trust my children because I have taught them what I have learned and believe, and helped them get an education
- Wealth is a gift that will allow my children to form wonderful lives and serve the community
- Since I don’t know what challenges my children will face, the best I can do is prepare them to make wise decisions
- I can reduce potential conflict in the next generation by teaching them how to work together with respect and compromise
— Dennis Jaffe, presented at Family Magazine’s Transitions Fall 2003 Conference
Starting Simple with the Rising Generation
By starting simple with the rising generation, we help them navigate around the multitude of questions swirling around their heads.
I often hear this from advisors, “They never ask any questions or voice an opinion.” To which, I respond, “Why are your clients having trouble even knowing what to ask?”
Empowerment begins organically with assistance navigating the confusing waters of significant wealth. We help the rising generation discover what’s in their water, so they can surface, and begin to write their own life story. After discovering answers to their many questions, they are more equipped to use the power they have over their own lives.
EMPOWERING WEALTH MINDSET
- Focus on the positive, based on strengths and resilience
- Balance in emphasizing purpose and empowerment alongside challenges
- Rejecting outmoded, questionable myths
- Learning from who succeeds and why, over those who fail
EMPOWERING WEALTH ASSUMPTIONS
- I trust my children because I have taught them what I have learned and believe, and helped them get an education
- Wealth is a gift that will allow my children to form wonderful lives and serve the community
- Since I don’t know what challenges my children will face, the best I can do is prepare them to make wise decisions
- I can reduce potential conflict in the next generation by teaching them how to work together with respect and compromise
— Dennis Jaffe, presented at Family Magazine’s Transitions Fall 2003 Conference